Comments on: Good sex and the art of multi-tasking http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/ a whole new way to think about real life Sun, 03 Jan 2010 05:44:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/ hourly 1 By: kikuk http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-1050 kikuk Thu, 12 Mar 2009 10:31:06 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-1050 is sex an art? what do you think about that?? is sex an art?
what do you think about that??

]]> By: Texting while dating: we’ve got questions | Singlemommyhood.com http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-677 Texting while dating: we’ve got questions | Singlemommyhood.com Thu, 05 Feb 2009 09:22:59 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-677 [...] just getting to know someone — say, you’ve had a couple of fun, no drama dates — flirting and a  “thinking of you” texts are most [...] [...] just getting to know someone — say, you’ve had a couple of fun, no drama dates — flirting and a  “thinking of you” texts are most [...]

]]> By: Catty Granny Teri http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-586 Catty Granny Teri Tue, 27 Jan 2009 21:46:00 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-586 T ~ "work IN a friend with benefits" LOVE IT! ;) T ~ “work IN a friend with benefits”

LOVE IT! ;)

]]> By: Leah Klungness http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-585 Leah Klungness Tue, 27 Jan 2009 13:15:23 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-585 Jim: And I remember having just those same thoughts. Hoping things change soon. M: Kids think we're too old for lots of stuff, especially sex. Their ignorance is our bliss ... Catty granny terri: So interesting what you said about the benefit of a partner and the extra hassle created. Going to think a bit about that. T: FWB option seems to work for lots of single moms Jim: And I remember having just those same thoughts. Hoping things change soon.

M: Kids think we’re too old for lots of stuff, especially sex. Their ignorance is our bliss …

Catty granny terri: So interesting what you said about the benefit of a partner and the extra hassle created. Going to think a bit about that.

T: FWB option seems to work for lots of single moms

]]> By: Jim http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-584 Jim Tue, 27 Jan 2009 06:22:48 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-584 I remember having sex. I think I remember liking it. I remember having sex. I think I remember liking it.

]]> By: M http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-583 M Tue, 27 Jan 2009 03:41:39 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-583 15 minutes? Not worth the effort. Need at least an hour. Several if it's going to be really "great". Never rush foreplay. It's one of the cases where more really is better. 15 minutes? Not worth the effort.
Need at least an hour. Several if it’s going to be really “great”. Never rush foreplay. It’s one of the cases where more really is better.

]]> By: M http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-582 M Tue, 27 Jan 2009 00:02:57 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-582 Mostly spontaneous, but sometimes scheduled. Being a single father and seeing a single mother means there aren't too many "over night" times, but when there are the early morning, and late morning too when possible, is always great. I think it's funny how my teenage children think that "dad" is too old to still be sexually active. Mostly spontaneous, but sometimes scheduled. Being a single father and seeing a single mother means there aren’t too many “over night” times, but when there are the early morning, and late morning too when possible, is always great.

I think it’s funny how my teenage children think that “dad” is too old to still be sexually active.

]]> By: Mike http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-581 Mike Mon, 26 Jan 2009 22:32:14 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-581 If it's important you schedule it. I use to do it when I was married once we had a child. Things just don't "happen" as much as you get older. If it’s important you schedule it. I use to do it when I was married once we had a child. Things just don’t “happen” as much as you get older.

]]> By: Catty Granny Teri http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-580 Catty Granny Teri Mon, 26 Jan 2009 19:23:14 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-580 I always find time for sex. I'm still a little confused about this "single parent busy-ness" thing. I was a married parent for eighteen years, and found that "frazzled, between endless laundry, utility bills, play dates, school and work… and, yes, an inescapable desire for sleep" was definitely the definition of my experience. I am sure there are some who would say, "Yes, but you had another adult to share those responsibilities with." This may or may not be true. But in any case, the price you pay for that extra person is certainly high in many ways and just really negates any amount of positives received. I always find time for sex.

I’m still a little confused about this “single parent busy-ness” thing. I was a married parent for eighteen years, and found that “frazzled, between endless laundry, utility bills, play dates, school and work… and, yes, an inescapable desire for sleep” was definitely the definition of my experience. I am sure there are some who would say, “Yes, but you had another adult to share those responsibilities with.” This may or may not be true. But in any case, the price you pay for that extra person is certainly high in many ways and just really negates any amount of positives received.

]]> By: T http://www.singlemommyhood.com/2009/01/good-sex-and-the-art-of-multi-tasking/comment-page-1/#comment-578 T Mon, 26 Jan 2009 16:34:46 +0000 http://www.singlemommyhood.com/?p=1150#comment-578 Another way to feel sexy is to take a dance class. Belly dancing always makes me feel more feminine and like a beautiful goddess! I also love latin dance. Whatever suits you!! Be healthy. Go out and flirt. Indulge in some sexy clothes. Treat yourself to a great sex toy. Get to know who you are and love yourself for it!! And if you can work in a friend with benefits, I'd highly recommend that too! Another way to feel sexy is to take a dance class. Belly dancing always makes me feel more feminine and like a beautiful goddess! I also love latin dance. Whatever suits you!!

Be healthy. Go out and flirt. Indulge in some sexy clothes. Treat yourself to a great sex toy. Get to know who you are and love yourself for it!!

And if you can work in a friend with benefits, I’d highly recommend that too!

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