We started to write this really mushy Valentine’s Day post about finding love — and then we scrapped it.

Why?

Because we realized that we’re surrounded by love in this great, big blogging world of single parents.

Who needs a Valentine when you have blog love?

For the record, we know there are some single moms who lash out angrily at men. We understand that many women are still in pain, hurting after a divorce or break up.

But the love does come back!

That’s why we’re here to share our love….

First love goes to new Dads on the block: Hot Dads. What’s more fun than a bunch of guys who can make you laugh? And, we love to laugh.

Depot Dad We love your straightforward, sometimes quirky approach. We’re not the only women who visit  your blog because we feel at home.

Lance, You make us blush…and we love it.

RJ from Single Dad: Here’s to that gentleman and big flirt, all wrapped in one! Love that flirting!

Solo Dad We love how your warm and tender heart assures us that the good guys are out there. Sometimes, we need that assurance.

Dad’s House We’re just that into you.  We love how you’ve taught us how men really think.

Canadian Bald Guy We love you for being the guy who can change and grow. Here’s to second chances!

Crazy Computer Dad: Not only do we applaud you for being a solo dad, but we love how you always go that extra mile to get the resources your son needs to thrive.

5Ks and Cabernets Somehow, you blend fatherhood, marathon running and good wines all together in one blog.  What’s not to love about a  multi-taking dad!

Matt Logelin Your honesty about real feelings empower us both.  And, we really love you for it.

Single Parent Dad: What kind of woman doesn’t love an English sense of humor, need we say more?

John at Single Parent Travel: We love to visit your site and dream about taking a fantasy vacation.

SDMktg: We love your recipes… although either of us has yet to go tail-gating!

Going Insane in a Crazy World We love how you make us giggle!

idatewhite We love you for cluing us on the male point of view — friends don’t always have to agree!

That’s why we’re sending some Valentine’s Day love to bloggers out there. Just so you know, guys, you are loved…

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Here’s your chance to win:

Getting Naked Again: Dating, Romance, Sex, and Love When You’ve Been Divorced, Widowed, Dumped, or Distracted, by Judith Sills:

“You are divorced, you’re widowed, or maybe you’ve just been busy with other things. Lately though you might be ready (are you?) to meet (but where, and how?) another romantic partner.”

Knowing Pains: Women on Love, Sex, and Work in Our 40s, edited by Molly Tracy Rosen

“Have you ever wondered how other women survived their 40’s? You’ll get an earful in Knowing Pains, an honest, humorous, thoughtful and diverse collection of essays by real women who aren’t afraid to tell their age and tell it like it is. Sex, marriage, love, divorce, motherhood, singlehood, passion, obsession. Nothing is off-limits…”

The Successful Single Mom, by Honoree Corpron

“This former single mom and business coach gives single moms the tools they need to quickly and effectively get moving – personally and professionally – in the direction they want to go. This book provides single moms with a simple, practical method for creating success.”

Why Hasn’t He Proposed? Go from the First Date to Setting the Date, by Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal

“So you’ve found the love of your life. Good for you! But after dating the guy for months, even years, you’re starting to wonder: Why hasn’t he proposed? This is the book for you. Written by the husband-wife relationship experts from Lifetime’s Matched in Manhattan.”

The Complete Single Mother: Reassuring Answers to Your Most Challenging Concerns, by our very own Dr. Leah Klungness

“A comprehensive and practical guide for the single parent, filled with expert information and pragmatic advice. No topic is off limits: Sex and dating, of course. There are tips on how not to fall to pieces when the baby starts saying ‘da-da’ and even what to do when teenagers start worrying that mom will be old maid…There is an entire and encouraging chapter on raising sons. Breezy but always down-to-earth.”

Single Mom Seeking: Play Dates, Blind Dates, and Other Dispatches from the Dating World, by yours truly.

“Surely the first book about single parenthood that will be described as ‘hot’… a sexy, edgy, honest expose of single parenthood.”

To enter: Leave a comment. That’s it.

If you’d love to receive a certain book, give us your No. 1 and No. 2 choices. (No promises, but we’ll try!)

Winners will be chosen randomly on Feb. 15, the day after Valentine’s Day.

Remember: there are more than 20 books up for grabs!

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If you think it’s too early to be thinking about Valentine’s Day, we’re here to get the party started.

At Singlemommyhood, we believe that Valentine’s Day is about celebrating love — in whatever form you might find it. (We also admit to being complete chocolate fiends!)

The folks at Beaucoup recently asked if we’d host a Valentine’s Day giveaway to one special single parent here.

Would we ever?

Beaucoup offers one-of-a-kind party favors — and love themed favors are their specialty.

Personally, our favorites are the chocolate hearts and personalized cosmetic bags.

So, how do you enter the contest? Answer this question:

Who would your dream Valentine be — and which item at Beaucoup would you choose to celebrate with him/her at a party?

One winner will receive a $50 gift card for Beaucoup!

Enter contest after the jump….

Dr. Leah and Rachel will choose the most creative comment as the winner.

You have until January 19 to enter. Best of luck!

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