Should this single mom give up on love?

We’ve opened many conversations about combining responsible parenting with getting a life. And you’ve let us know – loud and clear – these efforts are far from easy. Whether your kids clash with your boyfriend or you’re grappling with a controlling ex, the road to real love is often a steep climb. So, when this [...]

When a single mom faces an unplanned pregnancy

  When we opened the conversation about breaking up when you’re pregnant, we wept as you shared your stories with us. Frankly, we hadn’t realized how often serious relationship drama erupts when an unplanned pregnancy is revealed.  So, when this single mom contacted us as she faced a very serious crossroad in her life, we [...]

5 essential steps to successful co-parenting

Successful co-parenting happens when you both realize that your divorce – or break-up – may have ended your relationship, but not your responsibilities as parents. Sadly, the majority of couples who separate don’t realize they can raise their kids together successfully – even though they no longer live together. At first, it may seem that [...]

5 practical tips for raising responsible teens

We’ve chatted about many kid topics. You’ve opened up about keeping – or not *big* secrets from your kids about your ex or another family member. And we’ve candidly commiserated about many co-parenting dilemmas. But, we’ve never – ever – chatted about our shared concerns about how to raise responsible teens. So, we’re sharing our [...]

When your ex and “other woman” welcome their new baby

You’ve let us know the terrible feelings of abandonment many of you experienced when you were pregnant – and broke up. Suddenly left alone to cope physically and emotionally with the 24/7 demands of motherhood, the struggle to keep afloat took every last once of strength. Eventually, despite the hardships, things – slowly – did [...]

When you’re asked about your baby’s absent father

We’ve talked often about how to cope with an absent parent. Recently, when a new single mom asked for help managing the all too familiar questions about her child’s absent parent, we listened. We’ve muddled through – not always successfully – fielding similar questions. So, we’re looking to YOU for advice. Here’s the situation: “My [...]

Have you ever fallen for a lie?

We get emotional when you share your painful break-up experiences with us.  Admittedly, some of your relationships – like dating a separated guy – were risky. You’re quick to acknowledge that ignoring obvious red flags was your personal choice. And we’re quick to point out that hindsight is always 20/20. Juggling responsible parenting with dating [...]

What happened to the digital souvenirs after your break-up?

Valentine’s Day is over – and some of you are relieved. If you’re in the midst of a painful break-up, or just recovering,  images of happy couples in love are painful reminders. Maybe you’ve agonized over your own relationship “souvenirs,”  especially the photos. We understand.  All of us have grappled with this dilemma.  So, it’s [...]

Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day!  No matter what your relationship status – please take time today for YOU. We know your schedule is *crazy* – we get it. Celebrate today by showing yourself a little love. Get some fresh air, dawdle over lunch, share a joke with a friend, or just indulge in some peaceful daydreams. Please [...]

When should kids sleep at a boyfriend’s house?

You’ve shared your worries about how to combine responsible parenting choices and strictly adult pleasures. We’ve talked about introducing – or not – dates to our kids. And we’ve debated the wisdom of grown-up sleepovers. We’ve never discussed, however, when it’s appropriate to involve our kids in our overnight romantic plans. So, when this new [...]

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